Whether we’re in a committed relationship that needs a va-va-voom revamp, or whether we’re on the look-out to meet somebody new, there’s one crucial ingredient that needs to be present from the outset;
We need to be feeling luscious ourselves.
To feel our feet on the earth, and know our breath imbued worth. To inject LOVE into our lives where it may be missing. To witness micro-moments of awareness coursing through our body. To OWN IT – this, this life, this is Mine. I’m imperfectly ROCKING it, I’m clumsily LEARNING it. I’m choosing this, and I’m choosing LUSCIOUS.
1) Make it SCARY
Choose one small, but SCARY ‘thing’ you’ve been quietly, secretly, eyeing-off. ‘One day I’ll do a triathlon.’ ‘I’m going to learn to sail.’ ‘I’m going to get-me-a motorbike.’ Or, as it were – ‘I’m going to do the TANGO’ (umm.. I may be in the throes of this right now …)
2) Love it like it is
You, that is. The hips, the skin, the hair, the nails. Holy Mother of all things Divine – you are a living, breathing MIRACLE. Sure, if you’ve got some getting-fit goals, or hair-styling wants, or brow-beautifying desires – get it done baby. But quit harassing yourself every time you look in a mirror. Try, just once, seeing you for the miracle you are. You are bloody BREATH-TAKING.
3) Find your FUN
Whether you like to wear your FUN loudly on the outside, or whether you carry a quiet reserve of humour on the inside, commit to finding your joy de vivre again. Nourish your brevity of Spirit. Watch, read, listen to the stuff that makes you LAUGH and SNORT and GIGGLE like a school kid. When you are wearing your FUN, you are MAGNETIC.
You’re reading me like a book here I know; you know what I’m getting at…
The secret to Luscious relationships is finding the LUSCIOUS within ourselves – it’s about what we bring, how we enliven the status quo, how we contribute rather than conquer.
The luscious, always and always, begins with our seemingly little, but-oh-so-Expansive, Selves.
Now get back out there and keep Rocking it like you do!